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by daniel cox

Urgent Prayer!

Hey all.  Not too much going on hence the lack of posts over the past few days.  Mama is going to Mtata, her past and future home, tomorrow.  She’s currently building a retirement home there.  It’s a really small place, I think with one room only.  She has to go there for a few days to take care of some building stuff. 

I’ve got some news for everyone.  I haven’t talked about it until now because I didn’t want to say anything until we got some uncertainties taken care of.  Although, we haven’t taken care of all of them, I want to tell you about it so you all can pray for me. 

About a month ago, we decided that when I come back in December, we want to bring Phumlani with me.  You might remember me talking about the disease that he was diagnosed with, Neurofibromatosis?  Well, we have looked into some ways to follow up on it here in
South Africa but we don’t see much we can do here.  We all feel like the best thing for him would be to get him to
America so he can see some specialists that deal primarily with this disease.  Everything has been taken care of thus far except for one thing.  His visa.  To come to the States for however long, you have to have a visa.  To get a passport, we have to travel 8 hours to Cape Town, Phumlani has to be interviewed by someone in the consulate, they will ask lots of questions about how long he’s going to be there, why he’s going, where he’ll be staying, and maybe even how we’re paying for it.  Then they will decide whether or not to approve his application for a visa or not.  The reason behind all the questions is so that they can make sure that people aren’t illegally staying in the States rather than going back to their home country.  I’ve been hearing lots of stories from people saying that they went to get a visa and when they go apply and have an interview, they’re denied one.  We are going to pick up his passport tomorrow and as soon as we get to the house I will be calling to request an interview sometime next week.  If we can get one that soon, we will be heading to
Cape Town hopefully by Tuesday.  I don’t want to be there long so we will try and do the interview on Wednesday or Thursday and then head back to
Port Elizabeth during the weekend.  Please be praying that we have faith that God will take care of everything, if it’s his will for Phumlani to come.  If he is approved for a visa he will be coming to the States with me in December and stay until a couple weeks into January.  Around 3 weeks or so.  Please be praying that everything works out.  Thanks guys!

 

daniel

 

November 14, 2006 Posted by daniel | Uncategorized | | 6 Comments

2nd for the day! Wooh!

Hello all.  Sorry it took me a while to get on here and let you know how the sponsorship program stuff went.  Wednesday morning I got up, took the kids to school, came back and ate breakfast as I was getting a few more things all ready to head out there.  I went to tell Mama that I wanted to be leaving in 30 minutes time and she said “for what?”  ….  That was a blank stare from. Ha.  She had forgotten that we were doing it that day.  She had forgotten so badly that she had made other plans, plans she couldn’t change.  So I was left without her.  Not a good start to the morning.

It actually turned out pretty well.  I got to the store, got the money stuff and payment all taken care of, the ladies were all there waiting for me outside, they actually listened to me when I told them to all stay where they were and one by one come and get a trolley with a parcel in it from me.  That actually surprised me that they listened to me. ha.

There were two that didn’t show up so this morning we went and took them to them.  Turns out there a little miss understanding but everything was taken care of.  They promised to be at the store next month. 

There are always a few people that are extremely appreciative for the food.  Specifically, two women.  Every time they see us and are getting food from us, they come up and give each of us the biggest hugs.  Every month I look forward to those hugs.  I had one lady tell me “Thank you.  Now each day we are all eating.”  I thought that was remarkable.  Now each day we are eating.”  Can you believe that?  Not being able to eat every day.  Sure there are some days where I probably don’t eat a good meal but I still eat something. 

Tonight, I took Phumlani to a movie.  Brooke came as well.  Last weekend, I took the girls to a movie while Phumlani was working so I thought I would make it up to him.  We walked around the area for a little while, got some ice cream, played a few games at the arcade.  He still has trouble with the driving games. Ha. Anyways, it’s been a fabulous day. 

Last night I lied down in bed around 6:30 listening to a cd.  I ended up sleeping the whole night through.  I didn’t get out of bed till 7 this morning.  12 ½ hours of sleep! WOW!  Haven’t done that in a while!

Check out the pictures below!  They’re pretty cool.  They’re all from the past 3 weeks or so.  I think. 

 

Daniel

 

November 9, 2006 Posted by daniel | Uncategorized | | No Comments Yet

more pictures from daniel

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here’s a really cool selection of pictures for you all!  

from the top you see schaun getting his feet washed.  the night before the group left, Mama and Schaun went around and washed the feet of the missions team that came from the states.  it was like when christ washed the feet of his disciples.then you see a beautiful picture of mama Mama and Lisa.  aren’t those the most beautiful smiles.somehow, not really sure how, but Schaun told Lilitha that she could shave his cave-man beard.  that’s my razor they’re using.  just the other day i went to use it and when i got done with it and went to clean it, all of Schaun’s long beard hairs were still in it.  GROSS!the next is the whole group and everyone from the house eating dinner together.  that was a lot of fun trying to get everyone at the dinner table. next you can see a midway point picture of the church the group built.  they were amazing.  it did get finished by the way and i will have a picture of it up here soon. the next two pictures are the care packages that my mom and a couple other ladies sent along for me.  Mom, unbelievable.  definitely more than i came here with. ha.  i have already eaten the majority of the two boxes of cereal and will soon start working on the boxes of Maccaroni.  Roxanne, thank you so much for the candy.  i was able to have a make-shift Halloween of my own.  i of course ate all the reese’s candy myself but was nice enough to share the rest.  ha.the last 3 are just speratic shots around the house.  i’m sure some of you have looked at the first one and thought that the babies head looks bigger than my own.  to put you at ease, it’s not…VERY close….but not.  

love you guys!

daniel

 

November 9, 2006 Posted by daniel | Uncategorized | | No Comments Yet

please pray

hey guys…i just wanted to inform you that tomorrow, Wednesday, we are doing the Child Sponsorship stuff.  Please be praying that everything goes smoothly.   Thanks ya’all. 

I hope you’re having a beautiful day!

daniel

November 7, 2006 Posted by daniel | Uncategorized | | 1 Comment

pictures from daniel!

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November 5, 2006 Posted by daniel | pictures | | 2 Comments

wonderful night!

hello guys!  just wanted to write a quick one. 

we had a wonderful night tonight.  It was absolutely full of emotion!  Joy, laughter, sadness, love, excitement.  And it was awesome!

Whenever we have a group of people from overseas come and visit, the last night they are here we generally set aside a time for us all to reminisce about all the things that we got to be a part of and got to see over the period of time they were here. 
We started off by having a great American meal…KFC!  We got a couple BIG buckets of chicken, Sybil made some salad, Sister made mashed potatoes and we had a fiest.  It was great! 
We started off by playing twister, Lilitha shaved Schaun’s beard, Aphelele and Phila pulled out their wickedly cool dance moves, Unakho was giving some of her famous back-rubs, and finished the evening with some beautiful fellowship.  We all sat around the living room and each visitor had the opportunity to say their goodbye’s as well as what they loved about being here and all the things that impacted them.  I absolutely love hearing the visitors speak.  It’s always a very touching and amazing time.  It’s so cool because in only a week, God can do so much.  Some of their lives will never be the same, because of one week that they spent in South Africa.  God is so good and he loves each of us and gives us a chance to see his love and be a part of something bigger than ourselves.  If you ever have an opportunity like that, don’t miss it.
After all the visitors spoke, Schaun and Mama got out a basin of water and proceeded to wash their feet.  In the background was a Michael W. Smith cd playing and everyone was silent, believer’s washing other believers’ feet, tears running down faces, children curled across laps, clenching on to every drop of love that they can get.  God is absolutely beautiful.  I teared up then and i’m tearing up now just thinking about it.  After all the visitors had their feet washed, they turned around and washed Schaun and Mama’s feet,  then Schaun and Mama washed Ronnie and Sybil’s feet.  These people washed each filthy foot, dried them after they were washed, and put lotion on them.  They did the most, became the lowest, and showed love to God’s children. 

It was a great night.  I can’t imagine how much of a mess i’m going to be when I leave for good.  It’s going to be so hard.

Well folks…I’d better get to bed. 

daniel

November 2, 2006 Posted by daniel | Uncategorized | | 4 Comments

Weeks Update!

Wow!  A whole week since my last one.  SORRY! ha.
Let me show you, as best I can, all the things that have happened since.

Thursday – The group from the States arrived.  They’re a wonderful group of people.  They got here around 5 or so and we dropped their bags off at their place and took them out to eat.  It provided a chance for us all to meet and get to know a little bit more about each other.

Friday – The group went to the farm school just around the corner from us.  They played with them for a little while and was able to give them a gift that a church from the States got for them.  Friday evening, around 5 or so, I took the group to the squatter camp that we were going to build the church at.  We got there and I showed them around a little bit, met Wiseman the pastor and a few other women in the church.  The group was going to dinner so we only stayed for 30 minutes or so.  As we were leaving Phumlani noticed that someone had thrown a big ‘ol rock through the front passenger window of the new car we just got.  The rock shattered the window.  They threw it twice, missing the first time and hitting it the second time.  To be honest with you i got kind of frustrated.  We found out who the guy was, he was totally drunk, being a completely arrogant punk.  He even tried to get Schaun mad.  Schaun said that he could sense that he was wanting to fight him or something.  Anyways, it was ridiculous.  $100 later and the window is fixed now.

Saturday – We went into Motherwell and did another feeding there.  Last time we did this there was around 100 people or so.  I figured it would be around the same again.  We got there, pulled around the corner and there was probably only 20 people or so.  Ha.  Not quite what I was hoping for.  I figured not everyone was there yet but we dropped the group off at the school we were feeding at and Schaun and I went to get some drinks.  When we returned there was a whole crowd of people there that had come while we were gone.  The folks from the States played some games with them, sang some songs, played a little soccer and then we lined them up to start the feeding.  What we do is line them up by ages as best we can.  Serving the youngest up to the oldest.  When we counted all the kids in the line there was 175!!!  And before we were even done giving out all the food there was easily 200 there.  How awesome is that?  It was a wonderful day!  After the feeding, we took the group to the Motherwell cemetary.  It’s always a very impacting place to see.  I showed them all Phumlani and Xolelwa’s mother’s grave.  Xolelwa was actually with us when we went there and that was the first time she had gone to see her mother’s grave since she died and that was June of last year.  She cried a lot and it was a very sad moment.  I teared up, almost started crying, cause I hate seeing her cry and I was thinking about Phumlani also and how hard that has to be for the two of them.  It was very sad. 

Sunday – We all went to the Vineyard church in the morning.  After the service was over Ronnie and Sybil took the kids out  to eat and then back to the house while the group, Brooke, and I went down to the market at the boardwalk.  They all got some pretty cool stuff.  Late afternoon time everyone went to the beach for a little bit.  Probably an hour or so.  It was sooooo cold!!!  Zach, one of the guys in the group, and I were among the bravest to attempt the cold water first.  We actually swam out and started riding the waves.  All of a sudden though I realized that we were really far away from the beach.  The water there can really pull you out in no time.  On the way back to the beach, that was a very hard swim, we got out and my body was hurting. Ha.  Way out of shape I guess. 

Monday – We started the work on the church in the Seaview squatter camp.  It was really cool to see what all we could do in one day.  I was only there for a couple hours cause I had to pick up kids, get lunch and those types of things, but the group was amazing.  They worked really hard, getting a lot done.  The church is about 9 meters long and 8 meters wide.  It’s actually a pretty good size building.  I will probably be the biggest one in the area and one of the nicest buildings there. 

Tuesday – We all went back to work on the church.  Monday, we did all the frame work for it and Tuesday we were supposed to have the roofing and the walls delivered to us so we could finish it off.  Unfortunately the truck that was supposed to deliver the supplies to us never showed up.  They were supposed to arrive sometime before noon and they called me at 3:30 saying that the truck broke down and they weren’t going to be able to get them to us that day.  Ahhhh!  that’s frustrating.  It was a bummer because we could have gotten so much done, if not finished, that day.  After that, we all went back to the houses and got showered and cleaned up, went out to dinner at the boardwalk, and then went to play a couple games of bowling.  It was awesome!  So much fun.  The group has 10 and then Brooke and I played making 12 people.  We split into teams of 6 and played against each other.  It was halarious.  My team got beat the first game only by 12 points but the second game we came out and beat them by 50 points or so.  I went from 93 in the first to 169 in the second.  You gotta love bowling. 

Wednesday – The group and Brooke left this morning headed to a game reserve that’s an hour away or so.  They will be staying the night there and returning tomorrow morning.

Tomorrow – The ladies in the group will be going to Motherwell to do some ministry there.  They will be doing some house visits and also going to a couple local schools.  The guys in the meantime will be going back to the squatter camp and as long as the supplies show up on-time, we will be doing as much as we can while we’re there. 

I hope I was able to update you all and get you up-to-speed with what’s been going on here.  I’ve been having a wonderful week so far.  I absolutely love having this group here.  They are absolutely amazing.  They’ve been coming back to the house most nights, exhausted from the work and the jet-lag is still haing around that they’re ready to go to bed but I’ve been so excited to have them here that I’ve been keeping them up to play some cards or just hang out and talk.  Haha.  They really are great though. 

I hope you all are great!  I’m praying for you and your families looking forward to seeing you all again.  Can you believe that November is here?  NOVEMBER 1, 2006! WOW!

daniel

November 1, 2006 Posted by daniel | Uncategorized | | 2 Comments

new car!

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YAAAAAYYYYY!!!!!!!!!  We got the new car.  I picked it up today before I got the kids.  After I picked the car up I went to get the kids and they all laughed at me when I drove up cause I looked so funny in that huge vehicle.  Ha.  It felt really weird driving that thing.  I felt like I was sitting on the front grill with a whole train behind me.  Very strange.  It is great though.  There’s so much space in that vehicle which will be great.  It’s just what we needed.

 

It’s been kind of nasty rainy again today.  Every once in a while it will start drizzling and just be like that for 30 minutes or so and then stop.  The cool thing though is that it’s like this for a couple days and then right afterwards it gets HOT! So I’m hoping that tomorrow it will warm up again and be nice for when the group gets here.

 

They should be arriving at 4pm here.  I’ll be going with Ronnie and Sybil to welcome them to
Port Elizabeth.  Please be praying for the safety of these people while they’re here and that their whole trip here goes smoothly. 

 

You guys are the best.  Thank you all so much for your prayers and support.  You are all legends and heroes to me! Love you all!

 

daniel

 

October 25, 2006 Posted by daniel | Uncategorized | | 6 Comments

nice nice nice!

Oh boy, lots of stuff to write about!

 

WE FOUND A CAR!!!  Yesterday morning, Ronnie, Sybil and I went to look at a vehicle that we were interested in.  It’s going to be perfect.  It’s a Volkswagen microbus type vehicle.  It’s very big.  I will probably look ridiculous driving that thing.  Ha.  They’re going to sell it to us at a great price, for here at least.  We should have all the paperwork done and the car paid for by mid-next week.  The dealership is fixing a couple little things for us before we pick it up.  It needed 2 new tires and one of the windows was messed up somehow but they’re fixing that for us.  I can’t wait.  I miss driving the kids to school with everyone in the same car.  We’ve had to drive the kids in two cars to get them all there.

 

 I went to the squatter camp that we are going to be working when Schaun and his group get here.  I went there today.  I can’t remember if I explained what we’ll be doing or not.  We’re going to help a pastor by the name of Wiseman build some type of building so they can have church in it.  We’re going to pour a concrete floor and put up some walls made out of metal to keep the rain and the wind out.  Please be praying for us that we are able to do all that.  We won’t have much time to do it because the group is only here for a week and will only have a couple days to work there.

 

After I went to check-up on all that stuff, I drove a few minutes down the road to a town called Seaview.  It’s a really small town but it is right on the coast of the ocean.  It’s a beautiful town!  If I were to move here, that’s where I would want to live.  I pulled up right next to the water and just sat for a few minutes admiring the long, beautiful coast that was lit up by the glowing sun.  The were some clouds also off in the distance that just sat right above the land, the coast, and the ocean, white as could be they did an amazing job of accentuating the horizon.  There were a couple guys and a lady parked a little ways away but they saw me sitting there and came over to say hi.  We started talking; his name is Dave, very nice, very funny guy.  The other man there was with his son.  His son is 11 years-old or so but Dave said he was also deaf and dumb.  The funniest thing about Dave was that he was probably a 40-45 year-old guy and was really drunk.  I should also mention that it was 3 o’clock in the afternoon and he was still drinking from the night before! Haha!  We talked about how beautiful of a day it was and how wonderful the town of
Seaview is.  He gave me a few examples of how peaceful and quiet the town was but I won’t relay those stories to you. Ha.  I love people so much.  They’re definitely the best part of God’s creation.  There are so many different types of people, from different parts of the world, with different beliefs about life.  That’s what makes people so beautiful!

 

Anyways, it’s been a beautiful day and weekend thus far.  Mama made it to
Cape Town and is supposed to be coming back tomorrow evening.  I wouldn’t be surprised if she stays till Monday if not Tuesday.  We’ll see I guess.

 

Love you all! 

 

Daniel

 

October 21, 2006 Posted by daniel | Uncategorized | | 8 Comments

All Better

Hello folks.  Thank you all for your prayers!  Mama has recovered from whatever she had.  She’s been sick for the past 3 or 4 days and is now smiling and happy again.  I’m so excited. 

She is going to be leaving tomorrow morning for
Cape Town.  She has a daughter there and is going to be visiting her for a couple days.  Her daughter had a child not to long ago and they said they’re having some problems with the kid.  Mama doesn’t think they know how to raise a kid or anything like that or even what to do if she gets sick so she’s going down there to see her and her grandchild.  She’ll be taking Lilitha also.  They’re leaving first thing tomorrow morning and will be back Sunday evening.  Lilitha doesn’t know yet so she’s going to be extremely surprised when she finds out.  Every time Mama goes out of town, Lilitha is always standing in the drive-way sad and the whole time she’s gone she asks me when she’s coming back.  Mama thought she would surprise her.  I’m so glad they’re getting this opportunity to get away.  It will be great for them. 

We still don’t have any news yet about the car situation.  Our mechanic friend has been keeping an eye out for one for us and he told us yesterday that he saw one we might be interested in.  It’s supposed to be arriving in
Port Elizabeth today or tomorrow, I think.  It was bought from out of town and was intended to be sold here.  Hopefully we’ll get the first look at it and decide if it’s the right thing for us.  Please be praying that it will and that if it’s not the one that God will bring the right one to us…soon!

 

Daniel

 

(p.s. thank you all for the supportive comments on the last blog (except miss Anne Jackson)! haha.  Some of those made me laugh really hard!)

 

October 19, 2006 Posted by daniel | Uncategorized | | 2 Comments